{"id":853,"date":"2024-03-27T03:25:55","date_gmt":"2024-03-27T10:25:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=853"},"modified":"2026-05-20T07:46:48","modified_gmt":"2026-05-20T14:46:48","slug":"march-27-2024-c","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=853","title":{"rendered":"march 27\/2024 c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>27\/03\/2024c  Ask live  <\/p>\n<p>How can I make this group meeting tonight go better?<br \/>\nCalm.  <\/p>\n<p>OK and once I am being calm, how can I make it move in a constructive manner?<br \/>\nBe loving.  <\/p>\n<p>OK but how am I to be calm and loving with people on the screen that are thousands of miles away?<br \/>\nBe funny.  <\/p>\n<p>OK so I&#8217;m calm and loving and funny, but what is a specific thing I can do to make it actually produce good results?<br \/>\nIgnore minor infractions.  <\/p>\n<p>And what then?<br \/>\nAnd hope for the best.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>27\/03\/2024c Ask live How can I make this group meeting tonight go better? Calm. OK and once I am being calm, how can I make it move in a constructive manner? Be loving. OK but how am I to be calm and loving with people on the screen that are thousands of miles away? Be&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=853\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">march 27\/2024 c<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-notes","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=853"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/853\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":854,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/853\/revisions\/854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}