01\/06\/2023a Ask live <\/p>\n
So is this thing I\u2019m looking at with J a special relationship?
\nYes. <\/p>\n
And is it something I should avoid?
\nNo. <\/p>\n
Is it bad for me?
\nYes\/no. <\/p>\n
What does that mean?
\nIt\u2019s how you use it. <\/p>\n
How do I make a person into a whole relationship?
\nLet it be. <\/p>\n
How do I let it be?
\nDon\u2019t put things on it <\/p>\n
don\u2019t put what things on it?
\nExpectations. <\/p>\n
How can I have no expectations at all if I like someone?
\nThat\u2019s normal. <\/p>\n
So I just ignore her?
\nYes. <\/p>\n
That leaves me alone: how do I feel less alone?
\nGod. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
01\/06\/2023a Ask live So is this thing I\u2019m looking at with J a special relationship? Yes. And is it something I should avoid? No. Is it bad for me? Yes\/no. What does that mean? It\u2019s how you use it. How do I make a person into a whole relationship? Let it be. How do I… Continue reading june 1, 2023 a<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-notes","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=81"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":84,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions\/84"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=81"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=81"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=81"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}