{"id":698,"date":"2024-01-04T01:37:31","date_gmt":"2024-01-04T08:37:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=698"},"modified":"2026-05-06T07:24:32","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T14:24:32","slug":"january-04-2024-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=698","title":{"rendered":"january 04\/2024 a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>04\/01\/2024a  Ask live  <\/p>\n<p>How does one teach without punishment?<br \/>\nYou already know.  <\/p>\n<p>Yes by example, but by what example?<br \/>\nBy modelling good behaviour.  <\/p>\n<p>But how do you stop someone who ignores good behaviour?<br \/>\nYou can&#8217;t stop them.  <\/p>\n<p>So I just let them continue to damage others?<br \/>\nYou can stop someone from hurting others.  <\/p>\n<p>And then just let them wander off into the wilderness?<br \/>\nIt isn&#8217;t easy.  <\/p>\n<p>Is any of this easy?<br \/>\nNo.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>04\/01\/2024a Ask live How does one teach without punishment? You already know. Yes by example, but by what example? By modelling good behaviour. But how do you stop someone who ignores good behaviour? You can&#8217;t stop them. So I just let them continue to damage others? You can stop someone from hurting others. And then&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=698\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">january 04\/2024 a<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-notes","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=698"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":699,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/698\/revisions\/699"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}