{"id":234,"date":"2023-09-09T01:06:14","date_gmt":"2023-09-09T08:06:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/wordpress\/?p=234"},"modified":"2026-03-11T15:07:59","modified_gmt":"2026-03-11T22:07:59","slug":"september-9-2023-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=234","title":{"rendered":"september 9\/2023 a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>09\/09\/2023a  Ask live  <\/p>\n<p>How should I tell S of my concern about her work?<br \/>\nWhy?  <\/p>\n<p>I feel contentious that I am not being honest: how can I correct this?<br \/>\nLove.  <\/p>\n<p>How does Love help me to correct this?<br \/>\nWith more love.  <\/p>\n<p>How do I do this more love in this specific case?<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t tell her anything you don&#8217;t want her to hear.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>09\/09\/2023a Ask live How should I tell S of my concern about her work? Why? I feel contentious that I am not being honest: how can I correct this? Love. How does Love help me to correct this? With more love. How do I do this more love in this specific case? Don&#8217;t tell her&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/?p=234\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">september 9\/2023 a<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-notes","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=234"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":235,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions\/235"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/careyrutherford.ca\/lovenotes\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}